What is joint treatment? How can it help us with our daily struggles in life?
When the going gets tough, and the tough gets going, we often find ourselves lost. With just barely existing, barely breathing, the bitter agony hits us hard – we have no one to talk to. Instead, we fear that we have no one to talk to so we shut ourselves out. We lock our rooms. We put on our headphones and sulk into the abyss of despair and overthinking.
What is peers counseling or support? Does this type of counseling work for anyone? What entails a peer type of counseling? Is peer counseling beneficial for teens and all ages?
Worry not, says a voice. There are some peers who are always willing to listen and understand. Even when they don’t understand, their presence is enough to counsel the raging storm in us. Marjie L. Roddick, MA, NCC, LMHC used to say, “Your environment, both your social and natural surroundings, can greatly impact how you feel.”
This is where peer counseling comes in. Refusing to seek personal help is pretty normal, especially for teens. Hence, they resort to “Talk Therapy” with someone probably dear to them.
Here are six different counseling facts you need to know:
- Peer Counseling Does Not Mean You Have To Join A “Support Group” – History can attest that people open up to a person they are comfortable with. Normally, when we speak of “peer counseling,” we regard it as joining a therapy group.
In reality, counseling with peers may just be talking to your family or peers. Your peer counselor may be people relatively dear to you.
- It Is A Natural Stress Remedy – What good can it make? For starters, peer counseling eases our anxiety, it assures us that we are never really alone, that someone can actually be there and listen.
Second, the comfort of empathy and relatability talking to our peers gives us a sense of peace, knowing that we all go through hard times and that the world did not pour its pressure just on one single soul.
- It Is More Than Just A Treatment – Peer counseling is more than what most people suggest it to be. It is more than a form of support. It resonates with talk therapy to be one of the simplest forms of healing. It’s a baby step towards being open to the possibility of healing. “By building a list of people that you trust, with whom you can talk to in times of need, you allow yourself a strong sense of not being alone.” David Klow, a licensed therapist said.
Moreover, peers counseling is one way of creating a bridge between people, related or not. It breaks the walls that seemed to block an individual from realizing one’s worth through the help of other people.
- It Takes Courage To Choose Peer Counseling As An Outlet – On the other hand, people think that being guided by peers may affect their anxiety, without them actually noticing. It’s that subconscious thinking of ‘what if they judge us? What if they don’t fully grasp our situation and they suddenly jump to negative conclusions?’
Deciding to be open to peers counseling says so much about a person. Actually, realizing that you would want to tell your peers about your feelings and worries is already a sign of strength.
- It Requires Trust More Than Anything – It’s life’s irony to trust and doubt at the same time. Worse, when we open up to some people, we also want to immediately prove our worth. It is a process we have to trust and follow. The vulnerability of our entire being that we actually sought another person to console us can be so intense that it hurts us more than soothe us. That is why we need to talk to a friend whom we trust for support.
Peer Counseling is like jumping off a cliff, knowing and expecting that down that cliff, there is someone who will understand and who is waiting to catch us.
- It Does Healing More Than Talking – Honey, listen, it’s okay. We should all go through what we should all go through. That speck of light in our darkroom? That’s hope. This is the kind of understanding we get after joint treatment. It gives people a touch of healing. It opens the idea that after letting all your feelings and worries out, you become a better person. As Dr. Aaron Kaplan, PsyD, Clinical Psychologist used to say, “Why talk about your problems including mental health challenges? Just talking about your situation to a peer counseling companion or someone else can reduce your stress and help you feel better.”
Letting go of life’s anxieties and pressure will definitely heal you and your soul.
Deciding to be open to peer counseling says so much about a person. Actually, realizing that you would want to tell your peers about your feelings and worries is already a sign of strength.